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The Real-Life Relationships of the House of Payne Cast: Surprises, Love Stories, and Private Lives
While Tyler Perry’s House of Payne has captured hearts with its dramatic family dynamics and comedic timing, the real lives of its stars are equally captivating — full of love, heartbreak, and unexpected turns. Let’s dive into the off-screen romances of the beloved cast.
Lance Gross (Calvin Payne) – A Devoted Family Man
Lance Gross, 42, who plays Calvin Payne, was born in Oakland, California, to an African-American mother and a Ghanaian immigrant father. After growing up in Las Vegas and graduating from Howard University, Lance’s career took off in 2006 when Tyler Perry discovered him and cast him in House of Payne.
In his early career, Lance dated actress and America’s Next Top Model winner Eva Marcille. He proposed to her in 2008, but the couple split in 2010 before making it to the altar.
Lance later found lasting love with fashion stylist Rebecca Jefferson. During a birthday trip to China in 2014, the couple announced they were expecting their first child. Their daughter, Berkeley, was born that November. In May 2015, the couple tied the knot in Beverly Hills, and in 2018, they welcomed their son Lennon. Today, the family lives happily in L.A., with Lance often sharing sweet moments with his wife and kids.
Keshia Knight Pulliam (Miranda Payne) – A New Beginning
Keshia, now 44, grew up in Newark, New Jersey, and made history at just six years old by becoming the youngest actress nominated for an Emmy Award for The Cosby Show. Her love life has had its ups and downs.
She married NFL player Edgerton Hartwell on New Year’s Day 2016 — the day after their engagement. But just seven months later, Hartwell filed for divorce while Keshia was pregnant. She gave birth to their daughter Ella the following January.
Years later, Keshia found love again with actor Brad James, whom she met while filming Pride and Prejudice: Atlanta. Brad proposed in 2020, and they were married in a private ceremony at home in 2021. This past April, the couple welcomed their newborn son — just in time for Keshia’s 44th birthday.
Allen Payne (CJ Payne) – The Mysterious One
At 54, Allen Payne remains one of the most private cast members. Born and raised in Harlem, New York, he got his start on The Cosby Show and later played Lance Rodman. Rumors have swirled over the years about his love life — including links to singer Brandy and House of Payne co-star Demetria McKinney — but nothing has ever been confirmed. Fans still speculate whether he’s married or has children, though Allen continues to keep his personal life tightly under wraps.
Demetria McKinney (Janine Payne) – A Story of Strength
Demetria, 43, has overcome incredible odds. Born in Albuquerque, New Mexico, she became a single, homeless mother at 17. Today, she’s an award-winning actress and singer with over 35 credits. She raised her son Cairo, now 25, on her own and shares a close bond with him.
Her love life included a long, on-and-off relationship with Roger Bobb, VP of Tyler Perry Studios. After 10 years, they got engaged in 2016 but broke up before the year ended. She later dated music producer Eric Nielante Phillips but is believed to be single now.
LaVan Davis (Curtis Payne) – The Enigma
LaVan Davis, 56, began acting at 38 and became a fan favorite as Curtis Payne. Despite being in the spotlight, LaVan keeps his personal life incredibly private. Many fans mistakenly believe he’s married to Cassi Davis, his on-screen wife, due to their convincing chemistry — but that’s not the case.
Cassi Davis (Ella Payne) – A Love Rekindled
Cassi Davis, 58, hails from Holly Springs, Mississippi, and is beloved for her role not just in House of Payne, but also as Aunt Bam in Tyler Perry’s Madea franchise. She married Gary Patton in 2017 — someone she first met in third grade! The two reconnected and started dating in 2007, eventually marrying a decade later.
So, who’s your favorite House of Payne cast member?
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